Not Getting Results When Using the Law of Attraction?

Just like magic, manifesting while harnessing the Law of Attraction comes down to uncovering the little tricks of the trade.

Every day, all over the world, people are praying.

Whether for a new car, a soul mate, or a better life, people pray every day for something they believe is out of their reach.

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Growing up in a Catholic household, it was encouraged to pray or speak to God on a daily basis.

Keeping that constant communication open allows for prayers to be answered.

Even though this practice was something dreaded when I was younger because I just wanted to get to sleep without saying thanks, it has now sparked some interest in my new spiritual self.

Humans always strive for something more in life, without having access to the tools needed to reach them!

We are taught that 3 things are needed to manifest

  1. Good manners

  2. Good person

  3. A shooting star

Yet how many of you can honestly say that you’ve been able to manifest what you really want?

All over Instagram, people are preaching about the Law of Attraction.

They swear this process works and that with practice and the right set of tools, it can be just as easy for you too!

If you were anything like I was 2 years ago, you would be frustrated when realizing that it is not as easy as these influencers make it out to be.

So I did some research, and when I say some research I mean a lot of research on the Law of Attraction and the vibrational energy of each of us on this planet.

Read my post on the 5 Spiritual Products to Raise your Vibration, and naturally start to raise your vibration without even trying!

The reason why it takes so long for the Law of Attraction to work for so many of us all comes down to one simple question this is holding all us back.

That question is HOW!

How is what I want to manifest going to show up?

I don’t know How is it possible for me to win that million dollars?

Could I possibly manifest that? How is that possible with where I am?

You have been raised to take control of your life and to break down your next move.

Even from an early age in school, you were taught how to make flow charts, time tables and to weight the pros and cons of all your decisions.

Subconsciously, we learned to never let things out of our control.

You have been raised to focus on the HOW!

From a young age, you haven’t been taught to analyze WHY you want something, WHAT you would do when you had it, WHERE you’d be or WHO you’d be with.

Instead, you are encouraged to focus on the HOW!

This is one of the biggest blockers to ones ability to manifest.

If you had a conversation with the Universe while focusing on the HOW, you are only allowing ONE possible avenue for what you wish to manifest to appear.

It would be equivalent to grocery shopping for a specialty item. You know other people have found that item in aisle 1, so you go there first.

If you didn’t find it, you wouldn’t just go home because it wasn’t in the aisle that others had success finding it in.

You would continue to look until you found it!

It is the same thing with the Law of Attraction!

When you focus on the HOW, whether for manifesting health, wealth, romance, or anything, you are limiting your view to one aisle.

The universe works in amazing ways, bringing you what you ask for EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU ASK FOR IT!

One of the major problems is our mentality of the power that the Universe possesses and trusting that power.

We can not treat the Law of Attraction the same way we treat a business plan, monthly spending budget or school project.

By focusing on the HOW you limit your mind map to 1 branch.

When, in reality, the possibilities for manifesting are endless if you allow it to be.

Here are 3 ways you can limit the “HOW” mentality in order to experience the true power of the Law of Attraction.

1. Focus on the Feeling of What You Want to Manifest

When you decide what you wish to manifest, think about how you will feel when that wish is manifested in your life.

Create a list of all the feelings and emotions you’ll have!

Then when you either think about your desire or look at it on your vision board you can put yourself in that position of already having it!

Feel the leather of the new car seats, feel the money in your hands, immerse yourself in the feeling of having a loved one wrap their arms around you!

If you can hold that feeling and thought for as little as 17 seconds, the Law of Attraction will begin to bring what you want!

An amazing way to get in tune with your emotions is through meditation.

Check out this amazing course that helps you connect with your heart center through meditation, allows you to fully feel the emotions you need in order to manifest!

If you need more convincing that meditation works wonders for both your manifesting abilities and your soul, read about The 5 Unknown Benefits of Meditation.

2. Work on Your Self Talk

This one is a tricky one, especially living in the age of social media and Instagram idols.

However, no matter how hard this one is it is also equally important in your manifesting journey!

How you feel about yourself reflects what you attract into your life.

If you took a look at your self-talk and compared it with your quality of life, you would see a relation between how you feel about yourself and where you are.

Read here about the 2 Little Words That Can Stop Your Manifesting Skills!

When you speak negatively about yourself, the Law of Attraction responds with providing similar circumstances that are on the same energetic frequency.

What so many people fail to realize is that the Law of Attraction is ALWAYS working, even when we don’t want it to!

When you can change your energy to that of love, gratitude, and hope, then and only then, will you be able to attract what you wish!

3. Have Faith

Just like my much younger Catholic self being told to believe in GOD, I am telling you to believe in the Universe.

However, the one difference is, you WILL receive a sign, once you are able to be open to it!

I always live by the motto “believing is seeing”, because in the matter of the Universe, your conversation with it and the power you have within you, it’s all a matter of believing!

In order for the Law of Attraction to work stronger, you need to let go of all the beliefs others have put in your head!

No more believing the mentality of:

  1. you need to work hard for what you want

  2. money doesn’t grow on trees

  3. you can’t have whatever you want

I’m telling you to believe the exact opposite.

As soon as you have the mentality that there is something out of your reach, you are telling the Universe you DON’T want it.

You feel you either don’t deserve it or that it isn’t possible based on your life circumstances at the moment.

Just by following these 3 tips you will be able to drastically change your vibration and attract what you want.


As much fun as I’ve had at manifesting a blue car or yellow butterfly, GO BIG on your manifesting requests!

The Universe loves to bring you what you want, and WILL if you ask for it! It is just your own limiting beliefs that something is too “big” or “small” of a request.

Grateful for today,

EMs Path

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